Why no one likes a car salesman

I’ve been living in Los Angeles since June 14 and I have since passed my driving test, and am now looking forward to purchasing a car. So I’ve been putting out feelers, looking up cars online, while I shop around for an auto loan.

I was interested in one car from a dealer, and sent them an email. I discovered it cost more than I was looking to pay when they replied two days ago. Just a mere two days ago. Here is an email I received this afternoon from them:

Title: are you mad at us? 

“Hi

I have been trying to get in touch with you. You emailed me in regards to a cool 2003 Camry XLE. I have emailed you a few times. You have never responded. Did I upset at all. If so please let me know what I did wrong. My boss seems to think i am doing a poor job with you. what should I tell him. I really want to help you.
Thanks, ”

(I’ll be nice and not put the dealership or the individual’s name on here.)

Now it’s not so much the atrocious grasp of English and grammar here that offends, though it does since I’m a strong believer that when corresponding in business one should always look professional by using proper grammar and spelling. But here it’s the sheer harassing aspect in his tone, as though I, the customer, owe him something. Excuse me, but I always thought that the customer was right and should be respected, not hounded or accused of holding a grudge for some unknown reason. 

Well, that has ensured I’ll take my business elsewhere. And I replied this time to tell him so – politely, in plain English.

All dogs deserve to go to Heaven

My parents made the difficult decision to put our family dog, Cerberus, to sleep. He has been badly behaved for a long time, but recently it has escalated to the point of being quite scary. He was a beautiful jack russell and it feels like we’ve failed him by not being able to control him, and he’s had to pay for it with his life. I’m glad I was on the other side of the world, and my parents spared me the anxiety by only telling me after the deed was done, as I’d asked them to do if it ever came to this. I just hope that all dogs do indeed go to heaven and that he is floating on a white cloud surrounded by meaty treats and chew toys.

 

I’ve been thinking a lot about mortality lately, and how quickly my own life seems to be going, despite my youthful age. My grandmother is 97 years old and is one tough broad. Her heart is ridiculously strong from years of fastidious house work and vigorous walking and general hardiness of character. She would wake up every day at 5.30am just to wash the windows, apparently*; I complain about my 6.30am alarm for work. Once, when she was in her 70s, she woke up in the middle of the night hearing a strange sound downstairs, and went down to confront a burglar – a young man in a ski mask – armed with only an umbrella. She, an elderly widow, ran around after this young man with her brolly and chased him right out of the house. Sadly, her heart is as strong as ever but her mind is not and she is very senile now, introducing me to her nurses as her sister. That’s quite an age gap.

 

Well, she is losing weight fast and doctors think the cancer that she beat a few decades ago might have returned. Treatment would be crazy at this point – if it’s her time to go, at 97, then it’s her time and she should be made as comfortable as possible. But with the dog’s young life ended, and hers going on, and mine speeding up it seems, I can’t help but think about life, and mortality, and what we do with the time we have.

 

I fear I waste much of my life with silly magazines, ridiculous television shows, and too much time spent in my own head, daydreaming. Life is for living – for trying new experiences and being adventurous. I moved to another country and started everything fresh, but I’m still the same person and I still don’t take the risks I need to to grow as a person.

 

So here is a challenge to myself, and to all of you: try to do things that are outside of your comfort zone. Even small things. For example, the place I work at had a book sale last week, so I bought 7 books for 7 dollars, and I made sure a couple of them were about topics I would never usually read about – challenging topics that I might consider above my usual level for personal reading. But I want to be made to think, to understand more about this world. 

 

That’s just a simple example, and there are more things I have in mind personally. What do any of you think? What might you do that frightens you a little to think about but you feel would help you grow as a person?

 

RIP Cerberus Fisher

This is my editorial blog from Calliope: Voice of the Writers.

 

* My father has read this post and informed me that his mother is actually a mere whippersnapper at the age of 95, not 97, and that she did not wake up *every* day at 5.30am to wash the windows – that was merely her ideal way to kick off a perfect day of cleaning… Sadly I have not inherited her domestic fortitude.